Hi hi hello!
How's the week? Glad you're here! Excited to write about my recent trip to Austin.
How crazy is May? I mean, jam packed right? I have been non-stop. From Austin, to Palm Springs, to San Luis Obispo, and soon Cleveland for a wedding...it's a busy ass month!
This past weekend, I was in Austin with my very best friends, all 17 of them. I never take for granted how valuable our time is, and I know it's fleeting.
To also be friends with people that are positive, supportive, fun, engaging, outgoing and smart - gives me pause daily.
You are the company you keep. Period.
Thursday, we did the bars and karaoke. and basically caught up on things.
Friday we spent exploring the city, doing Rainey street at night. 17 girls at a dinner table, talking about how much they love each other and celebrating the bride at NO VA. We did a group 'cheers' about fourteen times. NO SHAME.
Saturday was probably one of THE best days of my life. I hate to be cliche but it was GOOD VIBES all day. Like from start to finish, without a sip of alcohol I was singing, dancing, laughing and enjoying every friend (and of course the bachelorette!)
Starting from our place downtown, dancing on our bus to Lake Travis, and ending singing Frozen, 'Let it be' at the top of our lungs on the way home, it was incredible.
During the day we tied up our boat to 5 others, but maintained control over the music, and honestly, our positive energy got us the award from our boat driver as 'the most fun bachelorette he's ever had'.
He's been doing the boat thing for 6 years, by the way. LOL.
(I asked expecting him to be like, 'yah, you're my third boat tour' - HA)
Through the day, I felt like, happy high.
No drugs involved but the same high feeling of joy and happiness. The rush. It's super interesting, because I don't think that 3 years ago, I could achieve this same 'high'.
Let me also tell you, that I don't really drink alcohol. Like, ever.
My friends all know this, and don't really even expect, or ask me to drink anymore.
It's not that I am a recovering alcoholic, or ever had a situation where things got out of hand - but I haven't been 'drunk' in YEARS and I probably have a glass of wine, once every 2 months.
No judgement, by any stretch, for those that do.
For me, I know that what I want from life I won't get hungover, or by drinking.
My body doesn't benefit, and I want to be HERE for life. I want to experience it, and not cloud or blur the experience of life with alcohol.
I'll definitely have a glass of wine with friends, or with dinner, but it's just not an activity for me. At night, I'd rather be home in my saggy Lululemon pants baby! I work out too much, I like to sleep too much, and I like to get shit DONE too much.
I'd rather not have my mood, my emotions...whatever, be controlled by a substance that isn't benefitting me in any which way.
But again, that's me! My friends, KILL THE GAME, and can casually drink, do their thing and have so MUCH FUN. I respect that shit. Do YOU.
So on Saturday I had a realization that I now have the tools and ability to control and CHOOSE happiness.
I can facilitate a higher level of joy than ever before. Sans alcohol, sans drugs.
By feeling the joy. NOTICING and NOTICING. Elevating my happiness level by appreciating each moment.
When I started to notice how much fun it was to dance to PANDA on a boat on a beautiful day in Texas with 17 people I love, it's like I had to pause and think, 'Damn. I AM HAPPY'.
But also to pause and say, 'I love this. THANK YOU'.
Noticing the moment, taking pause, and giving thanks. All brought me to a level of joyful bliss Saturday that was on ANOTHA LEVEL.
It was a good lesson for me to be aware that I control the joy and bliss in my life. There are times and places where I am lucky to have the people I love around me, but through the pause, and noticing of good times, good people places or things, you'll maximize the opportunity and, in the end, bring more of that good in your life.
There's really nothing better, than travel with friends to celebrate two people who are making a commitment based out of love. I love me a bachelorette.
So, feeling grateful, and happy to apply this to other parts of my life in the future. Excited too, to share with you a bit about what you can do in Austin.
I also was SO HAPPY to meet one of my fellow blogger babes, Janna Doan of www.jannadoan.com. She's even sweeter, kinder and more beautiful in person! Blog friends, are the BEST.
P.S. Austin f'ing rules. I couldn't love a city more, truly. It's unique, it's urban, it's a bit hipster, it's friendly and it's got the Lake, which is so key for me. I need to be near a body of water, always. Weird right?
Let me know if I missed anything! What else?
Things to do in Austin:
Go Boating on Lake Travis: Seriously do it. SO FUN.
Shop and explore South Congress: Cute shops and such great places to hang and eat
Have a drink or hang at Hotel San Jose
Go to Zikler Park: Get outside and even have a picnic! We did. So lovely!
Go Paddle boarding by the park: So fun! We kayaked too, which was hilarious.
Go out on Rainey street: Such a cute area, for drinks and dinner, an older crowd than 6th Street.
Shop at the Gypsy Wagon: Aka my favorite store EVER.
Plus shop at JM Drygoods. Sups' cute.
Be outside! It's gorgeous and green in Austin! So lovely to get outside!
Places to eat:
Where to stay:
So I think there's new regulation against airbnb there, oddly. Because we had our airbnb cancel because they said it was like a brothel, with 17 girls in it and that was illegal. Not sure what that says about us, and taking into consideration that statement is sexist...I COULD GO ON. Anyway, we did Littlefield Lofts which were on 6th street, in basically the busiest area there. So dope! Perfect for the weekend, I highly recommend.