IS IT SPRING YET? Blush tones + giving what you want to receive

Holllyyyyy guacamole y'all I am BACK FROM ZE DEAD.

Back in action after the flu got me (even though I say, "I never get sick!" ALL THE TIME).

How are you though? Hoping 2017 feels good for ya!

Any tips for me? Let me know :)

I'm writing this post from inspiration I received from a podcast I was on recently with Lindsey, T&A Talk Sex.

It was SO FUN.

And also, I am all sorts of bashful talking about sex. 

Seriously, LOL, I don't think you'd think it, but for some reason I get real shy talking about sex shit. Especially since I'm in a committed relationship with Justin, and wanna keep our life private ya know?

But I spilled a little :) nothing crazy but had a lot of fun on the podcast answering questions from their guests on dating older guys, and the Uber sexual harassment case....

You can listen to it here!

But the part about it that was so good, was hearing Christina talk about giving what you want to receive.

Yes, seems counter intuitive right?

But as an example, if you're wanting more love and attention from your honey, instead of begging or requesting it, give them that attention that you crave. 

If you're feeling a bit insecure about yourself, think about giving a compliment to someone else. 


I LOVE this, and try to practice or or think about it with all my relationships. If I am feeling off or want something, I am trying to give it first before asking for it.

I love what Gabrielle Bernstein says about this, via

"Take a close look at what you’ve been longing to receive and ask yourself; is this something I’m not giving? By taking an honest inventory you’ll come to see how your actions have been reflected back to you.

Once you’re clear about what you’ve been withholding it’s time to give it. Give the love you’ve been denying, give the forgiveness to the person you’ve been resenting, give the attention to the health you’ve been ignoring. Give what you want to receive and feel your energy shift."


So good right?

Take it sisters and USE THIS :)

Okay so to the outfit deets for this one, I LOVE THIS LOOK. 

Good blush tones, love how casual, and that you can wear it almost any season in L.A. I feel like it's the most feminine thing right now to add some blush in your life. I'm not usually a feminine dresser (more edgy) but I love how it makes me...feel? LOL. 

Shania Twain plays, "Man, I feel like a woman". HA. 

You know I'm a huge fan of ASOS and Free People, plus I shared this natural make-up look.

I'm getting so excited for spring, even though in L.A. the winter isn't so bad :). 

More spring favorites:

What are your favs for spring, friends?

Also thoughts on giving when you want to receive? I'm into it - FOSHO.

Have da best week! Loving you,