Deepness today! Really writing to you as a little journal of my thoughts. Mondays do that to ya, ya know?
Also how was your weekend? Did you do anything fun?
Mine was lovely, but nothing too special - except this. So, we'll get right into it.
The other day I was in SoulCycle (yah basic I know)...but one of the riders in the front, HAD HER PHONE IN CLASS.
BIG NO NO Y'ALL. RESPECT THE SPACE! NO PHONE ZONE!
So this girl gets out of class, she's like 15 years old, and is RIGHT BACK ON HER PHONE.
Fast forward, this girl's mom is talking to my friend Lindsey, the instructor, and tells us that the girl is in THERAPY FOR BEING ON HER PHONE SO MUCH.
Kids today, are in therapy for the amount they are addicted to their phones.
No hating on therapy, the mom, or the kid even. Just eye opening that social media/phones are becoming that much a part of kids lives that they need to go to therapy to help remedy an issue it's caused.
Scary, right? But where's the line? How much of this is related to social media and our generation (and younger ones) today?
*how old do I sound saying younger ones? BTW.
But to my post, which is related.
Does anyone else feel like social media is like creeping up and SUFFOCATING them lately? I know I'm being dramatic, but I feel like no matter how much time I spend, I'm never doing enough.
There's Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, Snapchat (@hundredblog can I write about social media and then share my handle? DGAF)...and I don't even do Tumblr, or YouTube or anything with video yet. But it's always like, I always have SOMETHING more I could be doing. I should snap, I should insta, I should spend more time on this or more time on that.
& I have a BLOG (SURPRISE Y'ALL!) - so it's like, my bread and butter is being on social media all the time.
Sometimes it just feels like I'm never doing enough. Not enough liking, not enough pinning, not enough tweeting...and I think I spend 3+ hours on social daily. My phone, is like my best friend/sidekick. I also cracked the screen this weekend, which was sweet.
(Wait remember Sidekick phones? LOL)
Whenever I'm not paying attention to Justin, he goes 'digital detox (with a finger wag) and references a post I wrote in May 2015 about 'taking a digital detox'. LOL that's not ANNOYING AT ALL.
But there's truth to it!
(Hopefully he's not reading this to see I said that!)
Lately I've been noticing the effect social media has on me. I go into a room, I feel confident about myself, who I am, but I'm constantly wondering if I could be documenting this for everyone else to see, to keep up and to stay relevant.
When I was in Vietnam, I spent a portion of the trip thinking or seeing things with my 'social media' eye, and viewing things as either:
A good Instagram.
A funny snap.
A photo opportunity for a blog post.
It's almost like, I'm not SEEING things in the flesh sometimes when I know I should post on social. But seeing them as the snap/insta/post living already on the internet.
In that situation, I'm less present because I am living in the mode of social media, sharing, rather than experiencing.
Shop the look:
Topshop Western Denim Jacket: Fits just right, a little big and baggy but COMFORTABLE!
Topshop Blush Palm Print Oversized Button Down: Super silky and comfortable, I wear this thing ALL THE TIME.
Topshop High-Waisted Denim Jean Shorts: These run SO SMALL. I mean, really small. I think my butt was eating my shorts, but, I went back and went a size up and was good. Doesn't make you feel nice but they are super cute.
I am starting to get into Pinterest (I think it's going to be huge in 2016) and keep up on Facebook with my page, my Instagram needs a MAJAH overhaul so my feed looks polished, and this is a small portion of the social commenting/supporting I want to do with other bloggers I love.
Let me definitely get it straight that I'm not complaining about what I do, or blogging, or sharing things with you, my readers. I'm obsessed with seeing what you're up to and all the amazing things you're doing/wearing. I mean, you guys, rule and are my life inspiration, DUH.
I do love to write, and I started The Hundred Blog to connect with more people, and share my life with people I know and people I want to know more about.
But it just sometimes, social media feels a bit out of hand, no? What's next and what do I need to spend time using so that I am connected/in the loop/relevant?
I did a little research and loved this Huffington Post article, about how to deal with Social Media Overwhelm by:
- Creating boundaries around your time on social media
- Use scheduling tools to use your time productively
- Use targeted searches to find the people and content you want
- Take breaks from social media
But I want to hear your thoughts, and sort of start the conversation about this.
What do you think?
Do you feel a bit overwhelmed with social media and the need to stay relevant and curate your life?
Do you guys have any strategies that you use to solve or remedy this?
What's next? Do you see us going in a specific direction social media wise?
Cannot wait to read.