Keeping it SPICY with Red HOT Date Night Dresses

Damn, sometimes you just need a date night.

Even if it's with your friends, I feel like we all have too many cute dresses to eat at Bareburger every time we go out to dinner.

That could just be me? HA.

Justin and I's date nights are straight up fast casual 99% of the time.

In and out in, about 30 minutes. Rule #1, not talking when the food comes.

So to keep it spicy, sometimes you just need that date night attire to be HOT FIRE.

Especially when you've been dating a while, Justin now sees me most days, with a bun on my head in lesbian button down tops and sneakers, or sweaty workout clothes.

Zero to a hundred, and date night is a hundred.

Also I just got back from Bali and it's so important that we spend some QT together and I'm SHOWERED. Doing a full recap on Bali and guide this weekend! 

This dress is on sale, from Free People, it's super sexy and flattering though. I usually don't go for body-con dresses, but I don't know, this one's comfortable.

It's definitely a bit 'boobie' though, so your going to be hanging out or exposed, but sometimes you just gotta live. When I go out to dinner just Justin and I, is when I like to wear boob tops.

Otherwise, I cover up all day, because I don't like walking down the street seeing dads check out my rack.

Ya feel me?

It's so important to get dressed up feel sexy and make the shift with your partner, like to both get ready for each other and treat each other like you're dating again, even if the dinner lasts 45 minutes before you want to get back in your sweatpants. 

I feel like when I get busy, Justin gets the least amount of my time and attention, like I'll just plan to see him at night, or in the morning (since we live together) and I'd like to change that.

I also think since he's my dude for life, that I have time with him (just in the future!)

Anyone else feel me?

Shop hot FIRE date night dresses:

Shop hot girl shoes:

Other date night essentials:

Besides possibly some spanx is there anything I missed?

Keeping in mind I usually wear these dresses when I am feeling GOOD and we are doing a nice dinner where I am not SO tempted to be eating my face off.

The FP dress though, fire right?

Let me know your favorites! Any advice for keeping it spicy? LMK :)

More Bali updates later, too!

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Feeling Babe Status in a Lace Front Bodysuit

When I walked out in this top Justin was like, sad and happy at the same time, LOL.

It's for sure a little risque, but also super badass and I never wear stuff like this!

I'd say most days, I dress like Ellen Degeneres, loose button downs and skinnies. Or Kate Hudson, aka always in workout gear.

Lace front tops y'all - super in and super COMFORTABLE. This is actually a onesie, HA. The material is super soft stretch and it's so comfortable yet, a bit sexy (eek!) to wear.

They're really 'in' right now, and I've been watching pictures pop up with babes wearing it. Most of the time it's paired with the button front skirts that are hot right now. 

Below you can see the muses rocking the lace front onesie. I'm in good hands with Candice, Emily, Vanessa, Haley, Bella and Julia y'all. Me and my girls stuntin'! Just twinning it!

This one I have one is from GoJane, which is a super cheap site my friend told me about, and on sale now for $22.13 (random price I know) but so worth it.

With this look I wore a camo jacket from OLD NAVY over the onesie, in case I felt like covering up a bit and to make it feel more like a fall outfit. 

The jeans are from J Brand, and they are the absolute best. So stretchy and comfortable - I'm actually wondering what we did before jeans stretched? I probably was unbuttoning my pants more after dinner...hehe

The shoes are knock-off Chloes from Aldo last season, and I've probably never gotten so many compliments on a shoe. 

I think that wearing this for date night is perfect, it's got stretch so you're comfortable to eat and it's like good for that with ya man or on a tinder date even vibe.

Shop da look:



Shoes (mine were last season Aldo and are sold out, but these are super dope)

Jacket (sold out from Old Navy - LOL but this one is perfect from Nordstrom)

Lipstick (my actual favorite lip color ever, it's matte and goes on like a stain - I LOVE. This brand is Hour Glass and the color is Opaque Rouge)

Glad I cropped that one huh? Hehe.

Let me know what you think! Are you down with the lace front onesie? How babe are the ladies above? Also trying to stay up on my Old Navy and see if they ever have any more good things like the camo jacket - I swear their stuff randomly got so legit.

I hope you guys had such a good weekend. As always, thanks for reading :)

Talk soon!


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